Wednesday, March 23, 2011


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Women Who Have Inspired Me

I need to pay homage to the women that have inspired me:

Queen Hatshepsut, who as a very young woman assumed command of the army to save her country, and made Egypt strong and great.

Eleanor of Aquitaine, who defied a King and the Pope, had the nerve to love whom she chose, in the manner she saw fit, and not be cowed by men.

Ann Boleyn who understood the hazard of love when combined with power, but did it anyway. I visited your cell in the Tower, and felt your presense;

Elizabeth Tudor,her brilliant daughter, who survived a terrible childhood, but used that pain to become a strong yet compassionate ruler who was England's greatest Monarch

Marie Antoinette, who had to know from the moment she entered France, that she was a sacrifice, and her life would not end well.

Mae West, for teaching me what risqué meant, and double entendres;

Marilyn Monroe, who taught me about the vulnerable side of sexuality, what it meant to be “her

Elizabeth Taylor, where I learned that a woman can have a career and still have time, love and passion for her children. As a child I adored that she always took her children with her where ever she was shooting a film, no matter the cost or inconvenience to others. Also, that it was okay to love jewelry, and that it couldn't be too much.

Joan Rivers, who taught me to be myself, and damn the consequences;

Golda Maier who taught me not to be afraid to ask for what I needed. I loved that she always brought her string shopping bag, whenever she visited the President.

Yoko Ono who taught me to hold my head up with dignity in the face of scorn and ridicule. I met her briefly at a show of John Lennon's artwork in New Orleans. You smiled at my tears at your husband's art, even while there were people there hissing unkind words about you within earshot.

ZaZa Gabor, who taught me that glamor and style come from within, and not to take beauty contests seriously (I had recently been in one and had gotten eliminated early). I met her at a grocery store in Long Beach, decades ago. She was wearing her Miss Universe crown. She told me she had “seven of dese damn things, and that they were just the thing to put your hair up with when doing housework”. I fell for her when she was ctitisized for wearing one of her beauty crowns made of crystal, when she was presented to European royalty, but wearing diamonds around her neck. She was the only one in the room that didn't look dour, dowdy and frumpy.”It's all costume jewelry dahlink; how expensive is your costume?”

Queen Noor, what incredible grace and compassion;

Mother Theresa, who questioned her own faith;

Susan McDougal, who went to jail rather than lie;

Hillary Clinton, for not baking cookies, for hanging tough when her health care initiative was ripped to shreds

Speaker Nancy Pelosi, the best and greatest Speaker of the House ever. How she can manage to keep a civil tongue in her head and not rip the opposition a new one, is totally beyond me

Jan Shakowsky, another great example of why women should rule!

Maj. Gen. Margaret Woodward, Operation Odyssey Dawn Joint Force Air Component Commander

And my mother in law, for loving me as her own.

Tuesday, November 23, 2010


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Monday, November 15, 2010

Why I Design Only One

Why do I design one of a kind jewelry? Because I’m not designing for everybody. I’m designing just for you. I want you to have something that speaks to your heart, that allows you to feel really good about yourself and whatever you’re doing. I want to make the piece that gives you the extra confidence to make that presentation, sing that song, argue that brief; make that sale, get that promotion. I want them to be absolutely wowed by you. I want to make your “magic amulet”. I want to have your precious just ready and waiting. I want to create your valued treasure that you can wear and enjoy for years to come.

I knot between the beads because I want it to last. It’s always so sad when I hear that someone’s favorite necklace came apart, and all the beads scattered, and they couldn’t find all of them. That’s why I knot between the beads. Yes, strung art does wear and break. But you don’t want to lose your treasure.

So that’s why I do it. That’s why I guarantee my workmanship. And when the inevitable happens, I’m there to make it all better.

To that end I want to remind everyone that I am happy re-string your broken treasures. I can make better, stronger. I can find the right bead or centerpiece to refresh and renew your necklace, and let the song return to your heart. So don’t dispair. Email me today. I care. I’ll listen.Let me help. It’s what I do.

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Friday, October 29, 2010

Girl Scouts and Boy Scouts of Where?!

I’m beginning to think that it’s time for the Boy Scouts and the Girl Scouts to go away. When I was growing up during the 50′s and most of the 6′s, I was not allowed to join the Girls Scout troupe in my neighborhood. My parents were informed that there was a “colored” troupe I could “join” on the West Side of Chicago. However, that group was NOT allowed to participate in activities with the other troupes in the City. Besides, I lived walking distance from Lake Michigan. So, it was really too far to go across town. Furthermore, it was insulting and discriminatory.The same thing happened to my brothers with the Boy Scouts (of America?! my ass!).

My father thought socializing with children our age, learning about nature and learning crafts and camping skills were important, so were enrolled in both the local YMCA and also a neighboorhood club, that provided lots of activities for children during the summer. Neither association discriminated. All were welcome. Consequently, there were white, black, Asian and Hispanic children. And we all got along for the most part, if for no other reason than we all lived in the same neighborhood, and went to the same schools, public, private and parochial. We played outside together on the street.

The only time there was a problem was when there was the annual trip to the television show, Bozo’s Circus. All the non-white children were forced to remain on the bus, or stay home and not participate because Bozo didn’t want non-white children on his show. That didn’t change until the late 60′s, due to a court order. It was the same order that required that the Boy Scouts and the Girl Scouts integrate. By that time, it didn’t matter to us. However, I suppose it was good for the children that grew up later.

I became disgusted again with the Boy Scouts when their blatant hostility to homosexuals came to the fore during the 80′s and 90′s. Although I have supported the Girl Scouts over the years. The only reason I did was to support them was because I was supporting my neighbors and my friends children by purchasing cookies from them.

Today I have learned that the Girl Scout are considering having their uniforms manufactured in China! That would cause several hard-working AMERICAN workers to lose their jobs! The GSA claim they are “concerned about providing good value to their members”. Oh, please! If the almighty dollar is more important than instilling American and patriotic values, just disband now. Otherwise, it won’t be the Girl Scouts of America, will it? No, it will then be the Girl Scouts for China! It’s already the Boy Scouts Just the Ones We THINK Are Straight. What kind of values will be instilled in our children?! That money is the only thing of value! Some moral compass THAT is!

Friday, September 24, 2010

Stop Poisoning Our Children!

Children’s Jewelry Recalled Because of High Lead Content By JCK Staff Posted on September 23, 2010 D&D Distributing-Wholesale, Tacoma, Wash., is recalling children’s “mood ring” jewelry because of high lead content, according to a report in The Seattle Times. The jewelry was made in China, the report said.

Please, please stop poisoning our children!

Stop buying this crap!

Listen, everyone. China got the bright idea to substitute cadmium for lead. However, it’s just as toxic! Granted, it was because the US raised their regs and came down on China last year about this problem. However, you need to still be vigilant.

Stop buying ‘cheap jewelry” for your children. China is only concerned with China. It makes no difference to them if your kids get sick, because they already have YOUR DOLLARS!

Yes, I KNOW your daughters and their friends like it, it’s cute, and “everybody has one”. But I’m begging you, before you buy that trinket for your children, ask the store clerk or the manager about the country of origin for the product. If it’s packaged, read the damn package! If they cannot tell you, or will not tell you, DO NOT BUY IT.
Buy jewelry that’s stamped as sterling silver. Often you’ll see the symbol .925. ( Or buy gold.Yeah, I know it’s more expensive. ) And again, quiz the sales help. If everyone keeps up the pressure, the corporate honchos will learn to stop trying to make a fast buck at the expense of the safety and health of the American public.

Thursday, September 23, 2010

Why Customer Service Means Respect

I recently made an online purchase. No big deal, done it before. However, what got my goat, was their attitude towards customer service. I placed the order and received the confirmation email. I didn't expect to receive the tracking number immediately, because I ordered over the weekend. Monday morning, I sent an email, requesting the UPS tracking number. Later in day received replay that request had been forwarded to shipping department. After two days, and no response, I called to request my tracking number. The person who answered the phone was polite enough. She indicated that the person who did the shipping was on the phone. Did I want to hold?

I assented. After ten minutes of listening to dreadful “on hold” music, I hung up. Upon calling back, and making the same request, I was tersely informed that the shipper was very busy. I indicated that I had been waiting for over two days for a reply to my question. She then got quite snippy with me, telling me that they were just “too busy”. I asked to speak with a manager. She then said she would take my name and number, and assured me the shipper would call as soon as possible. She also indicated that it had been shipped; so what was my problem? I reiterated that I wanted the tracking number. Period.

About three hours later, the shipper called and was obviously irritated that he had to deal with me. I had left with the person that took my phone number, along with my name, order number and phone number. Upon providing the same information, he indicated that he would have to take time to look it up, a major inconvenience for him as he was “so busy”.

At that point, I admit I became quite annoyed. He said it "just too much trouble, and took too much time, to notify customers of their tracking numbers". I gently pointed out that since he was using UPS online shipping, all he had to do was check the box to inform customer of their shipping details, which would automatically generate to email and send it to the customer. Some have to plan to receive deliveries. Further, as a business-owner who serviced online clients, I always sent my customers their detail information.

At that point, he informed me that he had been shipping for“almost a year”, and that “he knew what he was doing”. I told him that I would take that into consideration, the next time I needed that sort of product, his company offered and make another decision as to where I would shop in the future, because I was not happy with their customer service. No aplogy was forthcoming.He informed me that they had “the best customer service, and that I did not know what I was talking about”.It was more important to justify himself than appreciate his customer's needs!

Yes, red fire jumped out of my eyes. I have served my customers online for over ten years. I lose sleep thinking about how I can improve their online experience with me. Because I'm here and they're way over there, somewhere. I want them to feel like I am accessible, and considerate of their needs and wants. One of my main concerns as as online retail merchant is to provide as much assistance to my customers as I can. After all, they don't know me. They're making a selection on faith, trusting that I will not only provide them with a product exactly as described and seen (if not better), but also provide them with a pleasant experience, reinforcing their decision to trade with me, and by extension, their good judgment. To that end, I will confirm the order by email immediately, and thank them for their custom. When I ship their selection, I email the tracking number so that they know I take them seriously and have care for them.

I respect my customers. I know my customers are very busy. That's one of the reasons they shop online. They do not have time to call, sit on hold, or email repeatedly. Nor should they have to! I value their consideration. They are not simply marks, or suckers ripe for picking.

Customer service is all about respecting your clients. And, whether or not someone makes a purchase or not, I still consider them to be very important. Showing respect will also garner more business. The person you satisfy and positively reinforce, will trade with you again. They may not tell anyone else about their satisfaction. They may not even inform you that they're unhappy. You simply will never hear from them ever again. But I guarantee that if a customer is displeased, then all their friends will know about it. And you will have devalued your own product!


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